It happens to every teacher- you have too much to do and are struggling with how to get it all done. Some days you become so paralyzed that you are unable to choose what to do next and the next thing you know you’re surfing Facebook and watching kid president videos.
Procrastination is a common sign of overwhelm. Feelings of defeat and despair can show up too, as any new teacher who has spent a lunch hour crying in the car can attest.
How do you take action when you are so overwhelmed that you can’t focus? How do you choose from the many projects and goals you want and need to accomplish?
Here are 6 steps to take when you feel overwhelmed:
- Stay in the moment.
When you are overwhelmed you are often living in the future. For example, conferences are coming up and you need to finish grades, you need to order the supplies for the science unit, and you need to prepare comments for an upcoming IEP meeting. The students will be in your room in five minutes. Before you know it, you are hyperventilating.
Take a breath and return to the moment. What do you need to do right now?
Overwhelm is often about a false timeline. Our heads tell us everything must be done right this minute. Ask yourself, what time constraints do I believe exist? Which deadlines are real and which are self-imposed?
2. Make a list.
Sometimes it helps to make list of everything you need to do. This is especially true if your worries keep you up at night.
Grab all those sticky notes and small pieces of paper where you have jotted notes and put them on one master list. This will help by getting things off your mind and onto paper and lessen the chance that you will forget.
Once your list is written down, prioritize the “need to-do” versus the “should do” items on the list. We all have a list of things it would be nice to do or that we would like to do. Those things can stay on the list, but they have a lower priority than the things that you must do. Turning in grades is a priority, color coding, labeling and alphabetizing your binders is a “nice to-do” item. Those can wait.
Assign due dates to priorities. Then schedule them into your planning periods.
If you have many large projects, break them down into smaller steps. It also helps to chunk like items together, for example making all the phone calls after school or gathering all the materials you need in the morning before school.
If you get overwhelmed by the enormity of your master to-do list, the next step is for you.
3. Take action on one small thing.
Even baby steps will help to thwart inertia. Just pick one small thing and do it. Then pick another small thing and do that. If you keep doing small things, eventually you will finish projects.
Go ahead and check off things once you have finished them; it will make you feel accomplished and let you see your progress!
4. Clear some space.
If your physical space is out of control, clearing some space can help you focus. Pick a corner of your desk and clear it off. Return things to their proper place. Toss the broken pens.
If your classroom is a mess, enlist your students in helping you pick it up. Together you can accomplish a lot of cleaning and organization in a few minutes. Look around at things that need to be cleaned up or organized and give each student one small thing to do.
Clearing your space often helps to clear your mind and make you feel better.
5. Consider outsourcing some of your tasks.
Many of us fall into the trap of believing that we, personally, have to do everything. In reality, you can probably outsource some of the things on your to-do list. Which items would be better done by someone else? Could you enlist the help of a classroom associate or a parent volunteer? Could another teacher, school counselor, or principal help you with a student challenge you are facing? Could you enlist students to do more of the routine classroom chores?
A bulletin board designed and put up by students might not be as polished as the one you were planning, but the students will have ownership and may even prefer their bulletin board to yours.
6. Understand that you are doing the best you can.
We’ve all worried that we are not good enough or that we don’t have what it takes. We struggle because we have a lack of experience, knowledge or skill.
In the beginning, you won’t have the ability to handle everything smoothly. You won’t have everything figured out ahead of time.
It’s okay. We build strength and skill by being in the game and by taking action. We gain knowledge, experience and skill as a teacher by doing the job, not by thinking about it or wishing for it or obsessively worrying. Our strength comes after we do things.
You are good enough. You will get better. Believe it because it is true.
We understand the drive for growth and the pull of perfection. However, you will feel less overwhelmed when you realize that we don’t go into something strong and talented, we gain strength and talent by doing, trying, and learning.
In the busy schools and classrooms of today, you are bound to feel overwhelmed from time-to-time. We hope that you can use some of these strategies to feel less burdened and more in control.
Good luck!
Do you feel overwhelmed ? What do you do to get yourself back on track and stay productive? We would love to hear your ideas in the comments below.